May 21, 2013

  • so.. starting to have more interest in Ivan now.. lol. we text continuously [unless he's at work, or im busy doing my own thing]

    Carl doesnt know that Ivan and i are talking.. but he knows that Ivan likes me.. yesterday we were all at Ivan's house [including Ronnie] and Carl was just acting so weird the whole time at Ivan's house... o.O... theres other details but i need to go back to study for my final tomorrow >.<

    Ivan bought me a shirt from WongFu Productions, a "nice girl" shirt for my bday, and he was sooo corny but cute about it when giving it to me.

    Ivan: you can wear it and think of me!... *tries to look away.. wtf did i just say expression* [me just laughing at him]

    haha it was so cute.. later he texted me saying it was very awkward to say that cus he never said that before.

    Jay seems kinda jealous... cus i asked if we could pray together later.. and he responded, "...why dont you just pray with Ivan?"...-___-;; 

    Jay was also saying that he would've chosen Carl over Ivan.. and mentioned that Ivan seems cocky with his money. first of all, he doesnt even know Ivan yet o.O... so how can he say with just one thing he based it on. 

    i honestly dont care about how much a guy makes, so long he isnt greedy about it or spends it as if its abundant. i mean, yes that Ivan makes a lot more than Carl, but its just that Ivan makes an effort to hang out with me and tries to impress me. you dont need money to hang out with me or to impress me. 

    anyways... back to studying!

     

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    Jay later apologized that he didnt mean to judge Ivan right away. and he feels that im finally replacing him.... wth??? -____-".... 

Comments (2)

  • lol you guys are still living together, you should prolly keep the details to yourself.  I know you like to share but prolly not the best when you are living together.  I mean if Jay actively dated and told you all the details (from the beginning of chasing the girl to what they did on their date or how they spent their day together) I don't think you'd be too happy either xD I mean I know you guys have that rule about not bringing the person home..& you are technically sticking to the rules.. I don't think its a good idea to tell him everything thats going on with you and the guys interested in you esp now that you're "talking" to one of them Lol.

    i'm feel bad cuz i'm kinda prejudging ivan too.  based on what i hear from you about him, I like Carl better , hehe!
    just renember don't be too flattered by someone doing nice things to flatter you (bringing you lunch, buying you gifts, etc) just to impress you. cuz once he gets you, that might not be the "real" him.  there's a difference between someone doing things that make you feel special (what most guys do in the beginnings of chasing a girl or a relationship) and someone who is actually that kind of person and will continue to treat you that way even 2 years down the line :)
    I think thats why I like Carl better.  He was your friend, and genuine even if he's not good at "initiating" things.  I feel iffy on Ivan but I guess time will tell.

  • don't listen to them, i support u LOL. i never was for the "good girl/boy" down the street image. just keep in mind that this is the "chase". dunno if he'll be the same if u guys eventually  get somewhere. but, it's life.

    and, guys like a challenge. so just make sure u're able to judge if he's in it for u or the chase/ physical reasons. we're still young afterall.
    have fun and do things on ur terms~
    i mean, it's not like ur going for something long term. doesnt hurt to test how the water is here and there :P

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