December 4, 2010

  • our first issue errupts!

    title is overdramatic

    anyways..

    argh!! a lil frustrated -_____-... im hungry... and i need to start hw... but that isnt the issue

    Jay hates Peter and Nach.

    why? cause i promised i wouldnt hang out with Peter alone.... but i did on tuesday just to get starbucks. only hung out for 30 mins. i couldnt say "no" ><... he kept asking, "wanna get pho?... how about coffee?... ok then how about hot cocoa?"... i couldnt say "no" to everything.. i felt bad ><.. plus he is just my friend!

    so eventually i told Jay and he got mad at me -_____-... cause i broke the promise and now he hates him even more cause of it.

    eventually Jay said sorry to me cause its unfair to me

    then yesterday, at Krys's party.. i went to hug Nach and Peter cause they were standing outside the restaurant. Jay got irritated and said "you left me for them" -.-... im like.. are you serious!?.. i didnt leave him! i went to hug my friends. gosh!!!!

    when Jay went to the bathroom, Nach spoke to me saying "your b-friend is a hater! xD.. but i personally find it funny!"... and i didnt know what to say.. >.>.. so i just said "uh... yea.... but we're still koo right!? :D " and he says "oh, yea! were golden!!" lol..

    when we got to Krys's house [b4 everyone got there], Jay and i talked outside and he asked me whats wrong. i told him that i think its unfair and everything. he understands that its unfair to me and he's sorry to me.. but he cant help how he feels. he knows he's the jealous type. he kept asking me what i want him to do. and i told him i didnt know cause he cant help the way he feels. and then he bends on his knees and kisses my hand.. and im like in my head "awww... " haha xD.. anyways, i told him that its not koo to take it out on me. he knows im right. but the promise i broke just keeps replaying back in his head -______-......

    i didnt mean to... his words confused me @.@... i took it literally when he said "if you hang out with Peter, just dont tell me".... he told me this a while ago.. and yesterday he told me "its like going behind my back" is what he really meant and that i shouldnt do it......... the thing is, i am oblivious to that hahaha... im like a dude, i need things straightforward... he says that its up to me because they're my friends and he cant stop me.

    but i get irritated back when he gets irritated at me

    we made up, but not really the issue??... i think its just that i cant hang out with Peter alone.. like i need my other friends with us. Jay just hates Nach cause he is associated with Peter and mainly for the fact how Nach acted towards Jay at the halloween party.. >.>...

    *sings* why cant we be friends

    oh well.. just gotta work it out somehow.. relationships always comes with problems that need to get solved one way or the other.

Comments (9)

  • i think jay is being unreasonable :/
    his kind of jealousy is unreasonable >..<

    thats unfair that he hates nach too just cause of peter
    gees, boys lol

    mark asked me if jay hated nach lol!!
    i was like what?? no hes cool with nach but he doesnt get along with peter.  cause i renember you saying nach and jay clicked but not jay and peter..i guess not anymore x] he must have heard what was going on b/w you two for him to aske me if jay hated nach xD it must have been while i was gone

    i hope your issue gets resolved so that it doesn't show up again later ^_^

    mark is the jealous type too but he doesn't show it so much so sometimes i dont know when things are okay. your blog made me text him to ask if he was okay with me hanging out with my friend [who just confessed me yesterday @.@] cause i dont wtant him to get mad either xD.  i was aposed to go see a movie with that friend;  when i was dropping mark off he was like "so you're going on a date with him" and  said "no flirting" lol

     i think it also bothered him that i studied/"stayed over" at eric's
    and thats what made the "are we friends" thing come up again [and me ultimately deciding to give him a chance] because, before that he was cool with us just staying friends.  he thinks eric likes me lol

  • is he cool with you hanging out with other guys like uly and stuff?

  • Jay knows its unreasonable lol.. but he just cant help how he feels and he's sorry for it... sigh..

    yea Mark was right there infront of me sort of when Nach said "your b-friend is a hater!" ahaha......

    i think it urks him only if i hang out with other guys alone. if its peter/nach, then he gets mad.

  • wow this is like a pimple waiting to be popped. lol.

    I knew it! right when he told you that he wouldn't hangout with other girls,that he might expect the same from you, even if he tells you that he won't
    i guess he really can't help feeling that way.and i understand that, we all get jealous, possessive,hoping we're the only special person in our special person's life.
    but what are you supposed to do, force yourself not to hangout with peopleyou want to hangout with?that's not healthy at all.don't you guys hangout everyday already. LOL.
    my advice, always!!! is to not lose your individuality.and guide jay to have his own individuality too. the issue i think is because you're bothtrying to make rules, and roles.and expect this and that.even if you say you don't.just be yourselves, have fun.no more promises please,it's all blah blah.love each other.trust each otherbut love yourselves..you guys can't always be in the same page..you guys are together, but that doesn't mean you are one.:DDDDD!Good luck connie.I love you.hope it gets settled.

  • @aniehappyheart - lol thanks. but peter and nach are the only ones that he has a problem with me hanging out with alone. he's fine with me hanging out with other guys such as Uly or JanJan, etc.

    and he knows that i would never give peter or nach a chance. he just does not like them. lol.....

  • ohhmgaah. this is like, jay is edward cullen, and then peter is jacob. LOL.

    they don't like each other wahahah. and nach is part of the werewolves clan too.hahaha.

  • @aniehappyheart - but im more for team jacob.. haha, i mean literally. plus peter doesnt like me that way anymore now. 

  • i agree with anielle in some ways. i think there needs to be a balance but at some points one side can fluctuate once in awhille. the hangouts with friends and S.O. i mean. best of luck though, i just hope his jealousy will mellow out when he's with you because any type of relationship with someone can influence you to grow. ahhh tis life my friend.

    what if you hangout with an old guy friend that jay has never met, would he get jealous? is he okay with philip since he's one of your exes that were like "WOAH"... lol XD

    this was a response to your other blog tooo i was just too lazy to write in both xP

  • @popR0X - i dont think he would be comfortable with me hanging out with Philip alone haha.. but with a group he's ok with it. cause he does know that i lost it to him >.>...

    and yea i think there should be a balance too or some kind of compromise.

    im not sure about a guy he doesnt know.. but i think theres no one i really hang out with that he doesnt know NOW haha xD

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